Low concern
Probably not a red flag
Sounds more like an isolated moment than a concerning pattern.
A second perspective, not a verdict
Am I overthinking this?
Describe what happened in your own words. Red Flag or Not? gives you a quick, structured read on patterns, missing context and potential red flags — calmly, and without pretending to know what anyone else is thinking.
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Android · Free to try · 18+
How it works
From a knot in your stomach to a clearer view.
No long chat, no lecture. Four steps that respect one simple idea: one event is evidence, a repeated pattern is stronger evidence, and missing context matters.
01
Describe it
Write what happened, the way you’d tell a friend. Dating, friendship, work or family — pick a category if you like.
02
Structured signals
Your description is checked against a small set of clear questions: Is this recurring? Is a boundary involved? Is context missing?
03
A cautious result
You get one of five careful outcomes, a plain-language “why”, and a gentle next step — never a label for the other person.
04
Track patterns
If it happens again, add another example. Over time you can see whether something is a one-off or a real pattern.
Five honest outcomes
Not everything is a red flag.
The app is built to say “probably not” just as readily as “worth a closer look”. And when the description isn’t enough, it says so.
Keep an eye
Worth watching
One event doesn’t tell you much. If it keeps happening, it may mean more.
Pay attention
Potential red flag
Repeated behavior worth noticing — and worth seeing how it’s handled when raised.
Used sparingly
Strong concern signal
Several concerning signals together. Consider a clear boundary and how it’s respected.
A real answer
Not enough context yet
A few explanations fit. Add a little more detail to tell them apart.
It describes behavior you shared — it never diagnoses people, labels personalities, or tells you what to do with your life. You stay the decision-maker.
Privacy
What you write stays yours.
Situations like these are personal. The app was designed around that from the first line of code.
Saved on your device only
Your history and patterns live in an encrypted database on your phone. No accounts, no sign-in, no cloud sync.
Sent only to be checked
Your description travels over an encrypted connection just long enough to be classified. It isn’t stored on our servers and is never logged.
No text in analytics
Usage statistics and crash reports never include what you wrote.
Delete everything in one tap
Settings → Delete all data wipes your history and destroys the encryption key. How deletion works.
Red Flag or Not? Pro
Clarity, whenever something happens again.
$2.99once · lifetime
no subscription
no subscription
Free includes one check a day. Pro is a single purchase through Google Play.
- Unlimited checks — fair use, whenever something happens.
- Unlimited pattern tracking — follow every pattern, not just three.
- Repeat-pattern comparison — see how a new example fits the earlier ones.
- Weekly pattern summary — a calm look at what repeated.
- Full history — everything you’ve checked, kept on your device.
- Clean share cards — no watermark.
Questions
Good to know.
Will it tell me what the other person is thinking?
No — and nothing honestly can. It looks at the behavior you described and how it fits common patterns. It doesn’t determine anyone’s intentions, and a result is a perspective to think with, not a fact.
How is the result made?
Your description is classified by a third-party AI model into a few structured signals — recurrence, boundaries, pressure, missing context and impact. Fixed, transparent rules then turn those signals into one of five outcomes and carefully written explanations. The AI doesn’t write your result freely.
Why did I get “Not enough context”?
Because sometimes that is the honest answer. If a few explanations fit equally well, the app asks for a little more detail instead of guessing.
Do I need an account?
No. There’s no sign-up or sign-in. Everything you save stays on your phone, and deleting the app or using Settings → Delete all data removes it.
Is Pro a subscription?
No. Pro is a one-time $2.99 lifetime purchase through Google Play. You can restore it on a new device from the Pro screen with the same Google account.
Is this therapy or professional advice?
No. Red Flag or Not? is a lightweight reflection tool for adults (18+). It isn’t a crisis service and doesn’t provide medical, psychological or legal advice.
If you’re in immediate danger, call 911. If you’re in emotional crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, US). Red Flag or Not? is not a crisis service.
A little more clarity,
a little less spiraling.
Describe what happened. Spot patterns, context, and potential red flags.
Get it onGoogle Play